I just got a news that someone I knew very well (sorry, can't reveal her name) is currently going through a very critical moment of her life....a woman's nightmare.....a divorce!!! Her husband is finally back to his ex-lover. After eight years of marriage he finally realised that he is not meant for her. He added that his heart has always been for his ex-lover who just went through a very painful divorce. So all this while, she's been getting nothing but just an empty shell? But why now? Why after 8 years of what is been called a blissful marriage? Why after she had given so much of herself to, the person she have loved so unselfishly and sacrificed so much for, the person she stood by when anyone else would have left....????

I knew her since our formative years, she is indeed quite gullible but has a very good heart. She treasures every relationship. Like me, she has a fair share of failed relationships. She's a good mother, one that believed that charity always begins at home. So is it really her fault? It is very sad to know that there is a stupid soul who would jilt his own wife for another woman that ever dumped him for another man...It is arguable that...some men just don't get it....period. I knew her husband, someone whom my own mother will praised him for being such a so called 'good husband' and how my friend was so called 'lucky', laid it on a bit thick, if you ask me.

Why am I being so touchy & freaking out here......I felt the same kind of betrayal once, a long time ago. It was a gut-wrenching, frustrating and deeply painful relationship that ended bitterly and eventually.....tragically. He died in a very tragic accident at Philippines on my 4th anniversary with my husband. I'm not going to elaborate what I went through as it already 'died' in me.........but I have indeed made a very wise decision by leaving him for good after getting so sick and tired of not being able to eat, not being able to sleep, and struggling every day with sadness and uncertainty. I finally managed to escape from the sickening thoughts of where he could be, who he could be with and what intimate things they might be doing to each other.

Was it karma? I leave you to judge it........but I'm a true believer of devine retribution....

"The truth is rarely pure and never simple." Oscar Wilde